On the list of things that would make your life complete, having a girlfriend certainly ranks right at the top. It would be sad to have the things that you want in life and not have a female companion to spend your time with. No one to hold your hand and no one to laugh cutely at your jokes. Wanting to have someone to do things with is something that just about every guy can relate to, and if you are having a hard time getting a girlfriend, that can leave you with an empty feeling inside. You don't want that, so you do have to figure out what it is that you need to do so that you do end up with someone that you can be with.
Here are some tips for getting a girlfriend that really can't miss if you are looking for some suggestions that you can act on:
1) No one meets the woman of their dreams by sitting alone on the couch, so by all means... get out of the house.
If there was one action that you can take right now to increase your odds of meeting the right woman, it would have to be this. No amount of advice is going to help you attract a woman if you don't do anything with that advice and you spend your time hanging out on the couch and scanning the television. You can't be lazy in your quest to get a girlfriend, you have to be able to spring into action and go out and meet some females.
2) Sometimes, the best thing that you can do is have a cavalier attitude about dating when you are out and about.
By this I mean, it's usually better to have an attitude of being open to dating, but not being desperate to get a date. When you are out at a club and you are obviously looking to meet someone, you usually have a much harder time than if you look like you are just there to have a good time. The less desperate that you seem to be to get a date, the easier it is to actually get one.
3) If you don't know how to make a woman want you sexually, expect to end up in the friend zone.
Like it or not, you could be the perfect guy and still not end up with a girlfriend if you don't know how to make a woman want to be with you sexually. Without that attraction, without that desire, she is most likely going to end up seeing you as a potential friend and not as a potential mate. You need to be able to take things beyond the friend zone and to do that, you need to know how to make her want you sexually.
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Wednesday, 29 August 2012
The No Risk Way to Ask a Girl Out Via Text Messaging
Until you ask a girl out via text nothing is going to happen between you and her. However asking a girl out via text does not have to be difficult or risk a lot of rejection. In fact done the right way asking a girl out is simple and will allow you to ask the same girl out multiple times even if she says no.
The main thing when asking a girl out is getting over the traditional mentality that you need to ask a girl out on a formal date. Formal dates are things like going to watch a movie, attending a concert or worst of all going out for dinner. There is nothing worse by the way than trying to make forced conversation over dinner with someone you hardly know, especially if you are not good at talking with girls.
If you ask a girl out on a formal date you are virtually forcing her to reject you. There are so many reasons why right now she can't accept your invitation. Maybe she needs to study for a test this weekend, maybe her ex just suggested that they try again, maybe she already has plans to hang out with her friends. The fact is that you don't know so if you make an all or nothing offer of a date there is a good chance you are going to catch her at the wrong time.
What's more you are asking her to decide whether you are the kind of guy that she wants to have a relationship with. The fact that you haven't yet had a chance to build up attraction means that there is a good possibility that she will only see your weaknesses rather than your possibilities as a lover.
So instead of asking her out on a date what you want to do is to invite her to do something that you are already doing. A good example would be if you were planning to go a photography exhibition and you text her and ask her if she would like to tag along because she said how much she likes photography. Don't set this up far in advance, texting or on the day is fine. Don't make it sound like a date just keep it friendly.
If she says no then you can always ask her again later. You haven't even asked her on a real date so you can keep sending out these little offers as much as you like. If she does turn you down you can text some other girl and see if she wants to go. Or you can just go by yourself and enjoy the photos. Other examples would be to ask her if she wants to come with you to walk your dog in the park, or to join you for a drink, or to a coffee because you are in her neighborhood. Whatever the invite is it should be something that you are already doing, it should be impromptu and it should be no big deal.
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The main thing when asking a girl out is getting over the traditional mentality that you need to ask a girl out on a formal date. Formal dates are things like going to watch a movie, attending a concert or worst of all going out for dinner. There is nothing worse by the way than trying to make forced conversation over dinner with someone you hardly know, especially if you are not good at talking with girls.
If you ask a girl out on a formal date you are virtually forcing her to reject you. There are so many reasons why right now she can't accept your invitation. Maybe she needs to study for a test this weekend, maybe her ex just suggested that they try again, maybe she already has plans to hang out with her friends. The fact is that you don't know so if you make an all or nothing offer of a date there is a good chance you are going to catch her at the wrong time.
What's more you are asking her to decide whether you are the kind of guy that she wants to have a relationship with. The fact that you haven't yet had a chance to build up attraction means that there is a good possibility that she will only see your weaknesses rather than your possibilities as a lover.
So instead of asking her out on a date what you want to do is to invite her to do something that you are already doing. A good example would be if you were planning to go a photography exhibition and you text her and ask her if she would like to tag along because she said how much she likes photography. Don't set this up far in advance, texting or on the day is fine. Don't make it sound like a date just keep it friendly.
If she says no then you can always ask her again later. You haven't even asked her on a real date so you can keep sending out these little offers as much as you like. If she does turn you down you can text some other girl and see if she wants to go. Or you can just go by yourself and enjoy the photos. Other examples would be to ask her if she wants to come with you to walk your dog in the park, or to join you for a drink, or to a coffee because you are in her neighborhood. Whatever the invite is it should be something that you are already doing, it should be impromptu and it should be no big deal.
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Women Dating Younger Men: Anatomy of a May-September Affair
The term "Cougar" is the term coined to older women dating younger men. This has been made popular by the emergence of mainstream Hollywood couples like Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher, Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon just to name a few. Although, this wasn't as widely accepted before, but this has suddenly changed during the last few years.
Older women dating younger men are not as widely as accepted as the May-December affairs, were in older men date younger women. For the latter, these women are thought of as too old and people always look at them as mothers, thus when they see older women dating younger men people are quick to think of them as cradle robbers.
Why are older women appealing to men who are younger?
Most men would answer that the level of maturity and independence that women in elder age have is what made them appealing. With independence comes that security, older women have are more established with their careers and lifestyles that it takes the pressure off young men, who are still trying to make a name for themselves. Also eases the financial burdens of men when the issue of money is brought up.
Maturity can be a pro and a con when women are dating, it is a fact the women mature faster than men, as women get older they are more appreciative of the meager things in life. They are more realistic and gravitate towards the simpler things in life. There are men who want this kind of stability. But sometimes this kind of maturity wears on younger men who may not have that kind compatibility with his older partner.
Younger men find that they gravitate towards older women, because of their independence. There are younger men who find strong and independent appealing, those who can do well for themselves without the aid of men. Younger men find that instead of them taking care of the women, they want it vice versa.
Can this work and will it last?
In instances when older women are dating, there is always the question of stability of the relationship. Will this kind of relationship last? How can couples make this kind of relationship work? With older women dating younger men, there are certain challenges that brought about by the age difference.
Racing against the biological clock
If couples are looking into raising a family, they should take into consideration that given the age disparity, the women is in a race against time to be able to bear children.
Younger men raised traditionally
Older women are strong and independent individuals, if the man was raised in a conservative and traditional family the need to be controlling and or unwillingness to accept this kind of independence will be an issue.
Past bad experiences and other issues
Along with maturity and independence comes unresolved issues from the past, with older women dating younger men, these are some of the things that the latter must have to consider. Sometimes these issues still arise at present.
Who's to say that this kind of relationship will not work, it has been said that older women dating younger men are uncommon. But there have been relationships like these in the past and have never been talked about and accepted much like that of an older man dating a much younger woman.
Relationships, regardless of age difference, religion, race and so much more, is difficult as it is, but people have proven that no matter what differences they have they always can make it work.
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Older women dating younger men are not as widely as accepted as the May-December affairs, were in older men date younger women. For the latter, these women are thought of as too old and people always look at them as mothers, thus when they see older women dating younger men people are quick to think of them as cradle robbers.
Why are older women appealing to men who are younger?
Most men would answer that the level of maturity and independence that women in elder age have is what made them appealing. With independence comes that security, older women have are more established with their careers and lifestyles that it takes the pressure off young men, who are still trying to make a name for themselves. Also eases the financial burdens of men when the issue of money is brought up.
Maturity can be a pro and a con when women are dating, it is a fact the women mature faster than men, as women get older they are more appreciative of the meager things in life. They are more realistic and gravitate towards the simpler things in life. There are men who want this kind of stability. But sometimes this kind of maturity wears on younger men who may not have that kind compatibility with his older partner.
Younger men find that they gravitate towards older women, because of their independence. There are younger men who find strong and independent appealing, those who can do well for themselves without the aid of men. Younger men find that instead of them taking care of the women, they want it vice versa.
Can this work and will it last?
In instances when older women are dating, there is always the question of stability of the relationship. Will this kind of relationship last? How can couples make this kind of relationship work? With older women dating younger men, there are certain challenges that brought about by the age difference.
Racing against the biological clock
If couples are looking into raising a family, they should take into consideration that given the age disparity, the women is in a race against time to be able to bear children.
Younger men raised traditionally
Older women are strong and independent individuals, if the man was raised in a conservative and traditional family the need to be controlling and or unwillingness to accept this kind of independence will be an issue.
Past bad experiences and other issues
Along with maturity and independence comes unresolved issues from the past, with older women dating younger men, these are some of the things that the latter must have to consider. Sometimes these issues still arise at present.
Who's to say that this kind of relationship will not work, it has been said that older women dating younger men are uncommon. But there have been relationships like these in the past and have never been talked about and accepted much like that of an older man dating a much younger woman.
Relationships, regardless of age difference, religion, race and so much more, is difficult as it is, but people have proven that no matter what differences they have they always can make it work.
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Tuesday, 28 August 2012
What Turns Men On the Most?
It goes without saying that men are easier to turn on than women, and the ways to do it are far more numerous. There are ways of acting that do it, and certainly there are ways that do it based on appearance or other surface ways to get him going. Do you know what really does it more than anything though? Confidence. If you are confident within yourself, you will be guaranteed to turn him on.
Looks Aren't Everything
You may not believe this, but many of the turn-ons are the same for both women and men. Good looks always help, but many good-looking guys have only that working for them. There's nothing that is quality under the surface. In fact, the "hot" ones are the shallow jerks that you want to avoid. Women can be the same way. When a man uses his looks as his attractant, it's oftentimes because he has nothing else to go on.
Confidence Wins Every Time
You may be a hottie, but if you're not confident, you will lose the fight for a guy's attention most every time. If you are the type of woman who will say what she thinks no matter who's around or what they think, you may be perceived a bitch by some, but those people are just jealous that they don't have the confidence that you do and the courage to show it. This will definitely get a guy's attention and attract him to you. With your confidence blooming, you will find your competition dwindling.
Side Effects Of Confidence
Your confidence will project honesty as well and this will reel in guys that are the same way. This confidence can also help project sensuality as well as honesty, and we all know that sensuality really gets a man's attention. Although they are men, they like to be seduced, just like we do. A man likes that balance of lady and freak. Being nice and ladylike is good, but that "bad girl" thrown in the mix will not only get his attention on you, but keep it there as well.
What Independence and Confidence Does for You
If you are independent and confident, you will have no trouble attracting men. Every other trait is born from these two, such as your personality and style. Independence and confidence provides a valuable well from which everything else is drawn. Being confident and independent will affect you, both outside and in. If you want to know more about attracting those dream guys, feel free to ask me anytime.
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Looks Aren't Everything
You may not believe this, but many of the turn-ons are the same for both women and men. Good looks always help, but many good-looking guys have only that working for them. There's nothing that is quality under the surface. In fact, the "hot" ones are the shallow jerks that you want to avoid. Women can be the same way. When a man uses his looks as his attractant, it's oftentimes because he has nothing else to go on.
Confidence Wins Every Time
You may be a hottie, but if you're not confident, you will lose the fight for a guy's attention most every time. If you are the type of woman who will say what she thinks no matter who's around or what they think, you may be perceived a bitch by some, but those people are just jealous that they don't have the confidence that you do and the courage to show it. This will definitely get a guy's attention and attract him to you. With your confidence blooming, you will find your competition dwindling.
Side Effects Of Confidence
Your confidence will project honesty as well and this will reel in guys that are the same way. This confidence can also help project sensuality as well as honesty, and we all know that sensuality really gets a man's attention. Although they are men, they like to be seduced, just like we do. A man likes that balance of lady and freak. Being nice and ladylike is good, but that "bad girl" thrown in the mix will not only get his attention on you, but keep it there as well.
What Independence and Confidence Does for You
If you are independent and confident, you will have no trouble attracting men. Every other trait is born from these two, such as your personality and style. Independence and confidence provides a valuable well from which everything else is drawn. Being confident and independent will affect you, both outside and in. If you want to know more about attracting those dream guys, feel free to ask me anytime.
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