Until you ask a girl out via text nothing is going to happen between you and her. However asking a girl out via text does not have to be difficult or risk a lot of rejection. In fact done the right way asking a girl out is simple and will allow you to ask the same girl out multiple times even if she says no.
The main thing when asking a girl out is getting over the traditional mentality that you need to ask a girl out on a formal date. Formal dates are things like going to watch a movie, attending a concert or worst of all going out for dinner. There is nothing worse by the way than trying to make forced conversation over dinner with someone you hardly know, especially if you are not good at talking with girls.
If you ask a girl out on a formal date you are virtually forcing her to reject you. There are so many reasons why right now she can't accept your invitation. Maybe she needs to study for a test this weekend, maybe her ex just suggested that they try again, maybe she already has plans to hang out with her friends. The fact is that you don't know so if you make an all or nothing offer of a date there is a good chance you are going to catch her at the wrong time.
What's more you are asking her to decide whether you are the kind of guy that she wants to have a relationship with. The fact that you haven't yet had a chance to build up attraction means that there is a good possibility that she will only see your weaknesses rather than your possibilities as a lover.
So instead of asking her out on a date what you want to do is to invite her to do something that you are already doing. A good example would be if you were planning to go a photography exhibition and you text her and ask her if she would like to tag along because she said how much she likes photography. Don't set this up far in advance, texting or on the day is fine. Don't make it sound like a date just keep it friendly.
If she says no then you can always ask her again later. You haven't even asked her on a real date so you can keep sending out these little offers as much as you like. If she does turn you down you can text some other girl and see if she wants to go. Or you can just go by yourself and enjoy the photos. Other examples would be to ask her if she wants to come with you to walk your dog in the park, or to join you for a drink, or to a coffee because you are in her neighborhood. Whatever the invite is it should be something that you are already doing, it should be impromptu and it should be no big deal.
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