There are some key mistakes that guys are making over and over again which are destroying their chances of getting dates and getting women to go out with them. Let's take a look at these now so that you can avoid them in your own text messages.
Mistake One: Not Creating the Right State
There are two big mistakes that guys make. Firstly texting for too long before asking a girl out but the second one is asking her out without first creating the right emotional state. If you have not created this right emotional state before you ask her out then her will probably turn you down. The reason for this is that when you ask a girl out without first building up the right state she will probably have forgotten whatever good feelings she had when you got her number. Now you are just some random guy who has gotten her number. This is not a good starting point to get her to go out with you. Develop the right emotional state and she will be much warmer towards you.
Mistake Two: Taking Too Long To Ask Her Out
The flip side to asking her out too soon is to take too long. Just because she is responding to your texts does not mean she is becoming more attracted to you. In fact there is a good chance that if you text too long that you will either get filed into the "friend zone" or that you will say something which will destroy her attraction towards you.
Mistake Three: Failing To Ask Her Out
This might be obvious but it is still something that a lot of guys are doing. When you get her phone number it is easy to congratulate yourself but you still need to get her out on a date. Until you get her out on a date you do not have any real kind of connection.
Mistake Four: Double Texting
This is one of the kisses of death of texting and is something to avoid at all costs. The double text is where you send out two texts without her responding in the middle. It spells out desperation and has killed your chances of getting her out on a date in the future. If you are going to double text you need to wait at least a week between. It also displays the wrong mindset. If she doesn't get back to you in enough time you should be asking someone else out. Remember it's your world she is just living in it.
Mistake Five: Creating a Routine
Remember that what attracts girls and gets them out on a date is being fun. And a big part of being fun is being unpredictable. If you always respond immediately to her texts you are going to become predictable. While girls might say that they want a guy to get back to them quickly and that they hate to be kept waiting, this kind of behavior actually helps to create attraction. You want her wondering why you haven't got back to her so that a sense of expectation is created.
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